this proved too much.

we couldn't deal with scheduled quality time. we couldn't deal with all the stupid things we planned for ourselves.

on our first day we instantly became depressed. we thought of all the things we wanted to do before we would leave, the horror of having to visit all the stupid things. we just couldn't be leisurely easily.

we decided to take it easy. no more quality time attractions, but just time together, drink coffee, have a beer, a bottle of wine. sit outside in the sun. these things.